How to Be Sexy

Being sexy is a matter of mind power. To be sexy, you must feel sexy and think sexy. Being sexy isn't necessarily what you look like, but how you portray yourself to others. Having a great personality, being witty, and having great social skills are all ways that you can be sexy. To find the sexy within yourself...keep reading.
Being sexy is a matter of mind power. To be sexy, you must feel sexy and think sexy. Being sexy isn't necessarily what you look like, but how you portray yourself to others. Having a great personality, being witty, and having great social skills are all ways that you can be sexy. To find the sexy within yourself...keep reading.

Step1-- Being sexy is all about having confidence in yourself. Sexiness comes from feeling good about who you are and showing that to others. In order to feel sexy, try finding things about yourself that you like. Do you have a great smile? A fun personality? Or maybe you have a great ability to get along with others. Whatever you have...flaunt it. Be sexy using what you've got and don't be afraid to be confident in what you have. Everyone has a sexiness about them that just needs a little boost through increased self-esteem.

Step2 --Ask others what they like best about you. Another perspective can help you feel sexy as people around you will see more good things in you than you will see in yourself. If you feel comfortable, ask a friend what is sexy about you or ask your partner. You will find that you have many more sexy qualities than you realized. This will help boost your confidence and make you feel sexier.

Step3 --Dress sexy (not trashy, but sexy...classy). Dressing nice will help you to feel sexy. The better you believe you look on the outside, the more confident you will feel on the inside. Others will notice you too, which will boost your ability to believe that you are sexy. Find some favorite outfits and enhance your wardrobe by mixing and matching items you feel most confident wearing. The compliments you receive will reinforce your self-esteem. Feeling sexy is totally a positive state of mind.

Step4 --When you want to be sexy for your partner, dress sexy in the bedroom. Find a cute camisole and pantie set that you feel sexy wearing. Again, you don't have to be trashy, just sexy. If lacy pantie sets are not your thing, find a sexy cotton, form fitting nightie that you feel comfortable in. The idea isn't to be something your not, but to find something sexy that you feel confident wearing. As long as your comfortable, you will feel good about what your wearing and sexiness will come naturally.

Step5 --Wear sexy scents. Find a perfume or body lotion that signifies you. If you feel sexy in floral scents, enhance that with a Sweet Pea spray mist or cologne, for example. People are attracted to great smells and sexiness can totally be boosted by wearing sexy scents. Have you ever smelled someone's cologne that you just loved and it made you enjoy being around them? Smelling great will make others want to be near you and will boost your confidence. When you smell nice, you will feel sexy.

Tips & Warnings

• Stand in front of a mirror and pick out your best features...enhance those features with clothes, makeup, accessories...know that you are sexy!
• Layer sexy scents by purchasing soaps, lotions, and spray mists in the same flavors...wash with the soap, apply the lotion, and then spray the mist to keep you smelling sexy all day.
• Turn offs such as obnoxiousness and egotism are not sexy...just be yourself and don't push your sexiness...you will be sexy all on your own, just as you are by enhancing your natural self.
• Bad habits such as nail biting, smoking, and heavy drinking are not sexy...try to chance bad habits if you can by replacing them with good habits.